“Intimacy is the art of gathering the soul and revealing it to another. Its initiations are sometimes uncomfortable, but its practice is always sacred.”

-Hayden Lindsey

Hayden Lindsey, LPC-Intern

Supervised by Dena Roberts, LPC-S

Love Better. Live Better.

Individual Therapy

Single and looking to attract that special someone? Recovering from a break up? Wanting to deepen a relationship you already have? I can help you invite more connection and aliveness into your life.

Couples Therapy

Do you feel like things could be better? If so, you’re probably right! Whether your relationship needs fine-tuning or a complete overhaul, I can help you and your partner reclaim the intimacy you both deserve. 

Premarital Counseling

Thinking of tying the knot? I help couples solve practical problems while creating a unique vision for married life.

Infidelity Counseling

Was your trust broken by a betrayal or affair? I help individuals and couples weather some of their toughest storms.

Sexual Intimacy Counseling

Whether you have a specific issue with a partner or just want to explore  sexual concerns with a trusted professional,  I can help.

Trauma, Grief, & Loss

When loving together, losing together is inevitable.  I help couples hold fast in the aftermath of life’s greatest challenges.

Why Intimacy?

Intimacy is the lifeblood of relationships. It is what allows us to know and be known, love and be loved. It is a dance, a creative clash of human imperfection, of coming together, falling apart, and rebuilding. True intimacy is not for the faint of heart! 

While we usually think of intimacy as what occurs between us, it begins with what is within us. Our capacity to know and love others begins with our capacity to know and love ourselves. Relationships are proving grounds, the crucibles where we develop and grow as individuals.  

We are born to be intimate, yet none of us enter our adult relationships unscathed. Trauma, abuse, loss, and the stress of modern living all impact our capacity for intimacy. My work is about helping people be courageous in love, and to continuously find new ways to open their hearts. 

My Mission

 As children, we are forced out of the wholeness in which we begin our lives. We learn to bury our truest selves, making authentic relationship difficult, if not impossible.  It’s no wonder that despite unprecedented advances in health, medicine, and technology, we are collectively lonelier than ever.

My mission is to help men and women reclaim the intimacy that belongs to us as human beings. It is to help couples swim against the current of a culture that does not value relationship in order to bring health to their homes and their hearts, perhaps for the first time in generations.

When we learn to love — and love well –we create a loving legacy for the generations that will follow us, as well as a spiritual healing for those that preceded us. This understanding of a broader purpose, one that literally has the potential to change to face of our world, provides the backdrop for my work.

An Open Letter to the Broken-Hearted

Dearest readers, I am writing because you have been on my mind. All of you. You see, I recently uncovered a profound truth about all of us. We are all walking around with broken hearts.  That’s right. Everyone, myself included.  And if you think about it, it...

What Do Men Long For?

The Journey to Here I have a confession. I didn’t choose this line of work because I’m particularly adept at love. In fact, it’s exactly because of my struggles that I felt called to study relationships. To learn as much as possible about men and women. Where we’ve...

An Endless Void: The Origins of Shame

Shame is a big player in a man's life. He will go to great lengths to avoid it. He will go to greater lengths to medicate it. But where does it come from? Read on to learn the vital role shame occupies early on, and how most men get shame wrong. Language Matters:...

Lessons in Longing

We all know that feeling: the slow, fermenting desire for something missing; the visceral ache that roils within us; the bittersweet anticipation of that which we may never get. This is longing. Longing is among the more alluring qualities of romantic love. It is the...

11 Resolutions for a Better Relationship in 2019

I don’t know about you, but most of my New Year’s Resolutions went to hell sometime back in February. But June is upon us, and in the heat-death that is Texas summer, there lies opportunity for re-birth. Now is the perfect time to re-new some of the promises we have...

Should Men Be Tough Or Tender?: Wisdom and Masculinity

When it comes to men and masculinity, a line has been clearly drawn. On one side, there are those that say masculinity is toxic and destructive. On the other, there are those who respond that we’ve become soft and ineffective. One satirical headline reads:...

5 Signs You’re A Communication Victim

The secret to an emotionally rich relationship is emotionally rich communication. If we want to sustain positive, vital energy in our relationship, we must become experts in telling the truth -- about what we see, what we think, what we feel, and what we want. This...

The Two Things No One Taught You About Commitment

When you think of commitment, what comes to mind? If you’re like most people, the term commitment refers to the status of your relationship. You are either “in” a committed relationship, or you’re not. For some couples, “commitment” is simply synonymous with...

5 Reasons To Choose Couples Intensive Over Traditional Therapy

A Couples Intensive is a day-long session that proceeds with the explicit goal of getting to the heart of your problems and evaluating each partner's willingness to make necessary changes. I offer this format as an alternative to traditional weekly therapy. It is...

If you would like to set up a free initial face-to-face consultation to see if we might be a good fit for counseling work together, please submit the form below. It may take up to 2 business days for a response. Thank you! -Hayden

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Austin Intimacy Solutions

2407 Marlton Dr.
Austin, TX 78703